Good-bye and good riddance

Whoever said “keep your friends close and your enemies closer” must have been the biggest idiot alive or the biggest genius. Why would anyone in a normal civilization keep their enemies close, when, once again, you can cut your losses and move on?

The problem occurs when you feel the need to have that person for a personal need. Well, after much consideration, I have decided to get rid of my enemy. Problem was though; he didn’t want to leave me alone. It took me months to get rid of this one, and take note of this because it works, until I convinced him he didn’t want me.

Easier said than done, because believe you me, love really is bat shit blind.

Along with ending this relationship in my life, I have also killed the hope of ever getting money back from my ex. Yes, again… Me and my ex’s stories never ends, and it shouldn’t have to…

I gots my MoJo back!

For the first time in ages, all I want to do it blog my heart out.

And I will.

I have learned that being dependent on a person isn’t worth jack shit. A person depending on you is even worse.

Decisions about your life should be based on other people, to an extent, but it is still YOUR life to live! Whether you are married, single, religious, or agnostic, people should guide you to a better choice, and if they don’t, you have the wrong people.

Have people in your life that is on your team. Have people who will frown upon your decisions, give you advice, but still stand by you while the bomb blows up in your face.

But, quickly! Let’s stop being selfish…

Do your good deeds! Be good for the people you value in your life. Do the unexpected “thank you” card. Organize a get together. Have a movie night. Make your friends’ anniversaries and birthdays special in your way.

Don’t just text.

Instant messaging is, to me anyway, the lamest excuse of having a relationship.

“Says the girl trying to connect with people all across the world”.

Yes, I am a hypocrite. But only when it comes to people I don’t like, so, it doesn’t count.

Here’s the best advice I’ve learned so far in 2014: If people don’t like you, and are nasty to you, first decide if you need them or not. If it’s your boss, you need them. If it’s your ex, or one of those “friends” you vaguely remember from school, you definitely don’t need them. Secondly, kill them with kindness and exceed beyond their expectations of you, until they realize that you are not as bad as they thought you were. Be the better person and prove them wrong.

Smile, because you are beautiful. And you are exactly who you’re supposed to be. If they can’t handle the truth, they must be blind.

I sent my cousin in Scotland a postcard for her birthday.

I saw my godson for the first time in almost a year.

My finances are stabilizing.

My friends are becoming less in numbers, but more valuable than ever before.

I am growing older, but somewhat wiser.

I have lost most of the unnecessary weight I was so depressed about.

I am taking my pills every night.

I am working my ass off for the greater cause.

I am expanding my horizons.

I am living my dream.

I am free.

I hope that you are too. I hope that you get all the happiness you deserve in life.

I am sending out my good thoughts to the whole world now.

I hope that YOU have a great 2014!

XOXO